About Brady

On a seemingly random Tuesday in mid July mommy and Daddy went to the doctor for what was supposed to be a regular pregnancy checkup. We were 28 weeks and 3 days along in this journey and thus far there had been no complications. A typical visit to this doctor involved a 30 to 45 minute wait in the waiting area and then another 30 minutes waiting on him in a patient room. On this Tuesday, however, he came in not 10 minutes after we got in our room.

My first thought was “Wow he must not be very busy today!” but I would soon learn that wasn’t the case. He pointed out that Mommy’s blood pressure was 163/102, she had a high count of protein in her urine, and she also gained more weight than expected since the last visit (4 weeks prior). All of these are signs of a disease called pre-eclampsia. Due to the nature of the disease he wanted to send us to Candler Hospital for more extensive tests over 24 hours. This was not an official diagnosis – only a warning that the symptoms were all there.

We drive to Candler and checkin to our room. Note that this is the first time that Mommy has been admitted to a hospital – ever! Not long after arrival the tests begin and a few monitors are attached for obvious reasons. One is simply for her blood pressure, one for her heart rate, and another for Brady’s heart rate. The next morning Mommy’s doctor came by to check on her and look at the monitor results. He noticed some decelerations in Brady’s heart-rate and decided that this was too risky to stay at Candler. We were then transferred to Memorial Hospital which is well known for it’s Neonatal Intensive Care.

My assumption was that this was done just to be pre-cautious. With an infants life on the line you can’t ever be too pre-cautious. That said we are transferred early in the morning and arrive to the new hospital. There we meet the doctors who will be assisting with the tests and diagnosis. It is there that they do an ultrasound to check on Brady a little closer. Unfortunately this ultrasound reveals that there is a big problem with our little girl. There is a reverse blood flow along the placenta causing Brady not to grow like she should. This is a big problem because this can be severely detrimental to an infant’s chances of living. The doctors highly advised us to consider an emergency cesarean section.

Mid-day we enter into the operating room for the surgery. Everything goes well and Brady is born weighing in at a whopping 1lb 7oz and 11 3/4in long. Man that’s tiny! She’s cleaned up and quickly presented, all bundled up, to Mommy and Daddy in the operating room. We’re officially parents! Wow!

We had an incredible amount of family and friends supporting and praying for us throughout these incredible 2 days (and beyond!). We couldn’t have gotten this far without the strength and power of our Father in Heaven. The next couple of months will be hard with us living at home without our little Brady but we know she’s in great care. Keep us lifted up during this process because I’m sure there will be ups and downs. We can’t wait to bring her home and have our first restless night with her!

Thanks for taking the time to read this and other areas of this site. Let me stress how much we would appreciate your comments even if you just found this site and do not know us personally. Feel free to share your own experiences and thoughts with us by email. You can email either of us at daddy [at] bradyfaith [dot] com or  mommy [at] bradyfaith [dot] com.

27 Responses to “About Brady”

  1. Sarah
    July 20th, 2008 at 3:22 pm

    I’m a friend of Jessica Adkins. I wanted you to know we’re praying for you and your little girl. God is great and good! What a precious little girl. We will keep praying for her growth and development, and for your strength as a family as you are away from your daughter. God bless!

  2. Bekki Araujo
    July 20th, 2008 at 8:05 pm

    Hey,
    You guys are definitely in my prayers and in the prayers of the 70 other staff members at the camp I am working at.
    :) Bekki

  3. April Walker
    July 21st, 2008 at 5:27 pm

    Hey Erik and Nikkie! I work at the church with Erik and I just wanted you both to know that I am praying for you and little Brady! When you shared the first initial pictures with the staff here, seeing the Brady that we’ve been so diligently praying for and how small she is truly touched my heart! I’m thankful for the opportunity to pray for you guys and I hope you will share more pictures with us as she continues to grow stronger every day!

    Much love and blessings to you and your family!
    April Walker

  4. Sandy Talley
    July 21st, 2008 at 9:30 pm

    Dearest Nikki and family,
    My heart and prayers go out to you and your family. It was a few years ago(28 exact), but we went through the same thing that you are going through. Brian weighed 2lbs. 9 ounces. Memorial is the absolutley the best place Brady could be. Keep your faith strong and your chin up. I remember people would tell me, I know what you are going through and I would think, unless they have been in this situation they really dont………..SO believe me,,,,,,,I know what you are going through.
    My heart, my love and my prayers are with you. If you need someone to talk to or just a shoulder to lean on, I am HERE……….

    Love, Mrs. Sandy Talley

  5. George Arnold Comer
    July 21st, 2008 at 10:59 pm

    Know that BRADY FAITH has a room mate, second to none, and he’s watching over her. Uncle George

  6. Pat McDaniel Talley, Ocala, FL
    July 22nd, 2008 at 9:44 am

    Dear family I’ve just put brady on my church prayer list (Christ Church of Marion County) for long distance thoughts and prayer. Since most of us are senior citizens we have many years experience of talking and sharing with the Lord the needs of others. Kathy barefoot of pooler requested these prayers on behalf of your daughter. God bless your family.

  7. Kathy Rogers
    July 22nd, 2008 at 1:38 pm

    Dear Nikkie,

    We may not see you guys much these days but your entire family including this precious baby girl are now and will forever be part of our “Family of God”. I can’t believe that you are a Mom! Wow! Then again, I can’t believe that I am a grandmother either (Matt has a new baby boy as well). All of our little “Rothwell kids” have all grown up :)

    All of us from the Rogers family send you lots of love and buckets of prayers for little Brady Faith and her Mom and Dad.
    Without a doubt she is going to be a beauty like her Mom – both in looks and in spirit. Plus, she surely has a good bit of her aunt and grandmother in her as well which will give her lots of spunk and a fighting spirit for sure!!

    Hang in there girl…..

  8. Kaili
    July 22nd, 2008 at 2:26 pm

    Hi, I saw the post on babycenter.com about the birth of ya’lls little girl, and I would just like to say congratulations and that I will be keeping Brady and her family in my prayers! Please keep me updated…it truly is a miracle of God. God Bless.

    Kaili

  9. Amie Bautista
    July 22nd, 2008 at 4:51 pm

    You probably know Ernesto from Church. My name is Amie, and I am his wife. I also had this terrible condition during the latter part of my pregnancy with our first born, Sayanna. She is now almost 8 years old. I remember exactly the feelings that your body goes through, and it is scary. But the Lord is so good, and he brought us through just like he will you guys. We are all praying for your family, and little Brady is beautiful. Also, to encourage you, I have a cousin who was around 1.5 lbs. when she was born. She is a beautiful, healthy, smart, vibrant young lady now! May God bless you and comfort you during this time. May he give you strength, health and peace!

  10. Amber Tompkins
    July 22nd, 2008 at 8:12 pm

    Dear Nikkie and Erik,

    Our thoughts and prayers are with ya’ll. You two deserve nothing but the best in life, and I’m sure God will guide you through this. You and your precious baby girl are in our every thought and prayer. God Bless.

    Love Amber, William and Willie

  11. Uncle Ant
    July 23rd, 2008 at 3:33 pm

    Whats up kids havent had a chance to talk to yall today but just wanted to tell you i love all of yall and i am praying constantly for yall and my little sweet one but i am hoping to get to see her soon i cant wait it is like waiting for a big ball game im so exicted so i hope its soon love yall more than anything, Uncle Ant

  12. Cheryl Dasher
    July 24th, 2008 at 11:48 am

    Thinking about you all the time. What a wonderful blessing. In a couple of years all this will be behind you and you will say,”just think, she was a preemie”. She will be running around and talking your heads off.

    You can never give her enough hugs or tell her how wonderful she is.

  13. Marie Jobe
    July 25th, 2008 at 10:09 am

    Hey, I was just checking my status updates on FB, which I only do once a month, if that and saw your picture of your precious Brady Faith. We will definitely be praying for God’s strength and wisdom to surround your hearts in an overwhelming way. We love you guys and will keep you in our prayers. We are here for you if you need anything…
    Love, Marie, Brian and the girls

  14. Lynn
    July 25th, 2008 at 9:48 pm

    My cousin Vicki (Erin Garrett’s mom, ahh,I can’t remember Erin’s married name) sent me this link asking for prayer. Just know that I’ll be passing this on to many of my prayer friends here in “gold country” in the Sierra foothills of California. It’s clear that you all have a deep abiding faith and your little Brady is in good hands, our Lord’s. I’m a teacher and have had many students who were preemies. It may be rough at first, but before you know it she’ll be in kindergarten! I’ll be thinking of you.

  15. Larry Wishon
    July 31st, 2008 at 4:29 pm

    Actually I “stumbled upon” this blog and just wanted to drop a note that Mom, Dad and Brady are precious to the Lord and are being prayed for. I have two daughters myself, although all grown-up now, they are so precious to us. I pray you have many years ahead of enjoying God’s gift to you.

  16. lAURA HERBST THOMPSON
    August 5th, 2008 at 2:04 am

    nikki
    I can’t believe you are a mom! Congrats! I am praying for your sweet daughter everyday. Being a parent is really the most wonderful gift God could give two people and I can’t wait until ya’ll can take her home and have many fun crazy years ahead of you. Love you girl and stay strong and take lots of pictures to look back on because you will look back one day and even with the pics you wont believe all of this is real.
    Love, Laura Herbst Thompson

  17. Krista Taylor
    August 16th, 2008 at 11:46 am

    Hey Nikkie and Erik! I haven’t been keeping up with anybody from Armstrong these days and I’m not great about checking my facebook either so I didn’t realize little Brady was already here. I will be keeping you three in my prayers. Keep us up to date on how she is doing. =) I hope I get to meet her when she is home and healthy!
    Love, Krista

  18. Nora White
    August 17th, 2008 at 5:10 pm

    Nikkie and Erik,Our prayers are with you all during this trying time of waiting to take your little bundle of joy home. It won’t be long before you can and then come all the fun. Your home will be filled with more noise, toys, clothes and more than anything LOVE. The two of you will start to wonder what you did before Brady was born with you free time. Nikkie, Happy birthday to you a little late. Jimmy and I were out of town celebrating our anniversary at the same time you were celebrating being 25. It is so hard to believe that Heather and you are Mommies. It was like yesterday we were having the two of you going to Pooler Elementary for the first day of school. May God bless you and your family.

    Love, Nora

  19. julie delamarter
    September 5th, 2008 at 5:14 pm

    praying for your little Brady! God bless and continue to rest in His strength and peace.
    Julie in Vancouver, wa

  20. Esther Griffin
    September 5th, 2008 at 8:34 pm

    I’m praying for that precious little girl!

  21. Eleanor Bowen
    September 8th, 2008 at 12:11 am

    I am Silvia’s sister. I had the same thing and gained over a 100lbs. of water over night. Then stayed in the hosipatal for 2 1/2 months and morgan weighed 4.2 and then went to 2lbs. But she was a fighter and now she is 7yrs. old and healthy. Brady will do the same. You all are in my prayers
    Eleanor Bowen

  22. Joy Biles
    September 16th, 2008 at 9:38 pm

    Erik & Nikkie,
    Erik – Your Mom was my favorite teacher ever in high school! I graduated in 93 and I remember you coming to school with her at times or for special functions and you were just a small boy. I wanted to let you know that I am praying for you and Nikki and sweet little Brady. I look forward to see the blessings the Lord will grant you!

    Joy Biles

  23. Sandra Comer
    September 26th, 2008 at 3:01 pm

    Nikki and Erik, Brady Faith has really grown lately. She is filling out as you said” A little porker” . I know it won’t be long before you will take her home. Usually at 5 lbs as long as she is eating . Love you all Uncle Charles and Aunt Sandra

  24. courtney overstreet
    September 26th, 2008 at 7:14 pm

    nikki and eric, brady faith is just the cutest little thing!! she’s getting so big! soon you’ll have yourselves a fat little baby girl:) i just wanted y’all to know that i’ve been praying for her.

    nanna had bought two cute little onesies, and was gonna wait to give them to y’all, but at the rate brady’s growing, by the time nanna gets them to ya, she’ll have already grown out of them!!

    god bless.

  25. Gina Neilsen
    April 28th, 2009 at 12:11 pm

    Hey Nikkie, Erik and Brady Faith, Just wanted you to know we love you and are praying for your precious family. Our prayer for you: 2 Thes.2:16-17 Now may our Lord Jesus Christ Himself and God our Father, who has loved us and given us eternal comfort and good hope by grace, comfort and strengthen your hearts in every good work and word. Keep doing well. Your faith is a great testimony to us all.

  26. Tiffany
    May 1st, 2009 at 8:08 am

    I learned about this site from babycenter.com, I just wanted 2 say that i am glad 2 c that GOD is doing great things! My scripture 4 u is this .. {my favorite scripture} Philippians 1:6 Being confident of this very thing, that he which hath begun a good work in you will perform it until the day of Jesus Christ:

    Be encouraged!
    Tiffany

  27. Carol
    August 7th, 2009 at 11:48 pm

    I just wanted you to know that your baby girl is in wonderful hands. It does not seem that 31 years ago my niece was transported to Memorial for neonatal care.She was just born at St. Joseph’s and had several life threatening issues and doctors immediately sent her to to MMC. I can’t say enough about the fantastic care of the doctors and nurses. I have 2 grown daughters and this niece has 3 children!! God has blessed us in so many ways. I am praying that he will always shed His Almighty Grace on your growing family.

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Brady Faith was brought into this world 12 weeks premature. This was a result of mommy having pre-eclampsia and there being a reverse blood flow to/from the placenta. Brady wasn't growing like she should and it would have just gotten worse. She weighed 1lb 7oz and was 11 3/4in long. To learn more about Brady and her family click here.

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